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Experience the passion and intensity of Tantric Sex as you explore another realm of intimacy and desire.

What is tantric sex?

You may have heard the term “tantric sex” before and wondered what it entailed or perhaps you assumed it was another form of kinky sex or fetish play.

A rather condensed explanation of what tantric sex is is the luxurious and conscious exploration and celebration of a sexual partner. Tantric sex is about quality, not quantity and focuses on the journey and not a goal. Using all senses, both spiritually and physically, to deeply explore a partner and achieve a level of intimacy that transcends the purely physical.

Tantra originated in India in the 1st millennium CE and are spiritual and social practices and texts. The tantric view of sex is that it is not an action, it is an ongoing process of creation at all levels at all times.

Why do people enjoy tantric sex?

Humans are social beings, we all experience the desire to feel connected. Connection and intimacy are a distinct and integral part of the human experience.

As with all elements of life, to have a more rewarding and fulfilling sex life, a certain level of connection is needed.

Tantric sex focuses on intimacy, it requires partners to slow down and be more conscious and attentive to subtle responses and sensations. Being cognisant of these subtleties by utilising all senses and practising mindfulness can amplify and prolong satisfaction overall in your sex life.

Explore Tantric sex with your partner

Sex life with your partner feeling a bit flat? Perhaps other elements of your life seem to be draining the desire and intimacy out of your relationship.

Consider looking into tantric sex. There are many books, coaches and podcasts related to the subject that can be of great assistance to newbies interested in exploring the luxurious delights of tantric sex. (Some resources are listed below for those looking to start but do not know where to begin).

Tantric sex at Discreet Gentlemen’s Club

Exciting developments at Discreet during lockdown. Some of our Discreet ladies have taken the opportunity to study the sumptuous art of tantric sex and are able to guide you in the experience. Take things to new heights with this intimate and pleasurable service.

To find out which ladies can offer this service, please give our friendly reception staff a call when we reopen post-lockdown.


Conscious Couples – a wealth of knowledge and experience available in the form of 1-on-1 coaching, group coaching, podcasts and other resources by some of the most knowledgeable and attentive coaches available.

Light reading

Tantric Orgasm for Women by Diana Richardson

Tantric Sex for Men: Making Love a Meditation by Diana Richardson

The Heart of Tantric Sex by Diana Richardson

For a quick dip into tantric sex, we also recommend the short guide “Tantric Sex” released by the Quarto Publishing Group. The book’s content utilises content from the author Barbara Carrellas‘ book Luxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure (which we also recommend reading, should you want a more information on tantric sex).

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